A bike that is What's with this "Tell you later" nonsense ?? If you need to keep personal stuff secret fair enough but this is a bike site isn't it or did I miss something ?
i think you are absolutely rite with this one to be onist y tell ya later it not hard do u own a bike ? yes it a .......or pilly or sold it or looking for new one or dont want a another or never had one so yes i agree with ya big twin
I've never understood all those "tell you later" comments either, always figured it was just people half filling in their profiles on a first visit and planning on coming back to complete it later though sometimes this never seems to happen
Well I was not suggesting any duplicity However lets say one does not do pillion passengers for instance then there would be no point in directing some poster to come along to a meeting for instance Pedantic me no way
there are a lot of members on here who hide a lot of things.i put this self same post last year about this tell you later rubbish 1.what bike-tell you later = i dont have one 2.rlationship status-tell you later= im married/attached and fancy a bit on the side thats what it means to me anyway.no photo means theyre either too lazy or dont want people who know them to know theyre on here and so cant grass em to their partners.maybe im a bit cynical but if your being honest and nowt to hide why not tell the truth???? !!!!!!!
In some cases personal data is left out for very good reasons trying to hide from a bad past relationship for instance but as you say some are just a joke. As a member of the events team I send welcome messages to new members in the midlands giving an open invitation to all events with upcoming event details included if I just see tell you later from top to bottom of there profile I don't bother as I see my time will be wasted
Has far as my knowledge go,s if you have one your a male and if you don,t your a female ,have I got the gist of conversation. Oh yes I,ve got one or two or maybe more I forget.
I really do think some of you are reading more into this than is really there. so what if someone doesn't want to tell what bike they ride, I have seen a few posts where someone has slagged off a style of bike. so I can understand why someone would feel reluctant to say what they ride.
Or what their marital status is. if you find someone interesting then you should find out by asking not demanding they tell all.
some peoples live are very complicated and may not be easy to put into a few words.
also why should someone have to say what they do for a living or if they own there own house, really what has that got to do with anyone.
as for this bull about, if they put that it must mean this, that's just fuzzy logic.
some people join BM and don't know what to put on there status its as simple as that. so they will add info as they go along and as they feel more comfortable.
If I feel I want to tell anyone on here some thing I will decide what and when not some bizzy body with a closed mind that goes shouting all over the forums.
so how about putting the pitch forks away and giving people a chance. or you will end up with a closed clicky group.
m,o,w. ''Judge not . Lest ye be judged.'' is a nice idea , but we all do it . You your self have suggested reasons for omissions on profiles. And , the type of person who would have such a profile. The painfully shy or the terminally damaged. For myself , I've dated bikers and non bikers. My ex was a non biker ; not ideal. Prefer a biker with or without a bike :ex biker , ex pilly.
I would suggest that people fill in their profile to advertise to , and attract the attention of similar people. ''Reap what you sew''. That's another good one . People will be judged on their profile for the simple reason THAT'S WHAT YOUR PROFILE IS FOR. D x
ZZR , d' ya think you'll remember to update your 'relationship status' on your big day . It ain't official if it ain't BM confirmed lol xx congratulations to you both Dusty