i've done the dumping in both my relationships the first one (after 18 years) was violent an sleeping round (including a friend) and the second, as i said b4 was still taking things day by day (after 3 years).
I've yet to contemplate entering into another one, but maybe 3rd time lucky
I got dumped over the telephone at 6 am one morning earlier this year! I wasnt too bothered about that as i had been wanting to end it after 7 years together as he was becoming unrealiable and other reasons which i wont go into here, so i was glad he did the dirty work to dump me so i didnt have to feel guilty! but he could have told me to my face then i wouldnt have done a Bobbit...... Im too nice for that! I really am a nice girl by the way!
Hes started texting me again recently 2 months ago til now asking to see me - i told him where to stick it as it makes me laugh in a way as hes like benny hill doing all the chasing lol so revenge is sweet watching him make a prat of himself ive moved on and he should take a leaf from my book and follow my example etc....... Ive heard that he ISNT IMPRESSED with me enjoying myself it is nothing to do with him!!!! tsk tsk.......