me neither Boston, ok have now about this topic though (purely from an admin perspective of course).
ok suppose i gotta give me comments on this now.
Pete - don't worry about starting this topic, it's fine and wasn't meant to cause offence to anyone, and i can see that.
WB - trust u! lol. U can't have had a worse day than me, we should grab a beer together and moan about our lives for a bit lol.
Re the topic at hand... how is a guy to know if a new girl has already a had a million PMs from other guys??? Of course it's not acceptable to PM the same person in a harassing way, hence there is a BLOCK button and you can block any member of the website from contacting you in any way.
99% of people here are not coming to use it as an Adult Friend Finder, but a social site for bikers. If you're just here for the social side, simply reply to people and let them know that's what you're here for!
I'm sorry but my sympathy isn't with the girls (or guys) who get all the PMs. If anything we should be jealous that they're getting all the attention! lol. Plus i've worked hard making the site in such a way that you have complete control over what comes in and who sees your profile. If you want no contact then that can be arranged easily my disabling your profile and blocking people you don't want to contact you.
RR has her profile enabled and says she's seeking male friends. If she was bothered by the attention that she's apparently getting then she could change her profile accordingly, but clearly she's not too bothered by it.
FYI - disabling your profile just stops your info being public, it doesn't stop people who know your username from sending you a PM. People can also wink at you from the forums/search results. Winks can only be sent once so nobody can bombard you with them.
Neither I, nor the moderators, will accept members being harassed though. If you get blocked by someone and you open a new account to contact that person, this will be considered harassment and will be dealt with accordingly. Any problems with any members can be brought to my attention or the moderators group via the Contact page. Harassment will be dealt with as the highest priority from our mail.
So could this mean TangoMan has just blocked all my messages and he is secretly still here???
Yoohoo!! Sweet Cheeks!! If you can read this please get in touch!! Did our time together in Brighton mean nothing???
due to popular demand from my fan club,president TC!! an two lovely members Julie an CG ive made a reapearance[sorry xk!] i want to say i never pm,d fiery,although i started the 'wheres fiery?' post! i felt sorry fer the girl as she suggested a meet an hardly anyone responded she probably lost interest! i never made any lewd remarks jus a bit o fun!anyway fancy Brighton sometime TC?
The dood is back in town!!
Welcome home, TM! (and good work Julie and CG!!)
If I can work out how to get my bike down to Windsor, my bro and myself are going to ride from London to Brighton on Nov 2nd following the Veteran Car Run. Nothing definite as I have to work out if they do a towbar in this country for my car and then sort out a trailer but if we go do you fancy meeting up?
I will PM you nearer the date so I don't hijack this thread...
Just read all through this thread, seems a shame that the dude reacted so strongly to some typical constructive BM banter, and left the site there & then.
Still, frees up his time to pick his toys up and put them back in his pram i suppose