I'm not out to attract anyone, I like being single :-), but men in general think they can add dimensions to your life merely by being in it!!. I'm on this site for conversation and debate. I love bikes, tatooed,bald,muscely men, I don't want to sleep with them, but they interest me. I am an observer and happy to be so. My life is full of other things most of you would hate, or not be able to cope with, but I live it as it is .I love myself,but I have others more important than me to care for. I am a carer first and formost, my mother takes all my time, she adopted me as a baby, and I repay the debt!
It just goes to show that everyone is very individual and all choices, views and opinions should be respected as long as they don't offend or hurt others.
I have found all posts very valuable in their own way and I hope others have too!
When I started the post it was one of those passing low moments..... but I would like to think I am not the only one to have benefitted from the posts that followed ....
Thank you folks
But please post more cos I think this is a subject lots of folks on here can relate to ..... and if it helps anyone to feel a bit better then that cannot be a bad thing can it xxxx
Fook me started something here again haven't I lol.......ahhh come on it christmas/ newyear new outlook and all that......live is for living not regretting and pissing it away...
Far too many people don't have the opportunity or have had the opportunity of life taken away prematurely..... its not a dress rehearsal folks..... live it, love it and always be thankful that your alive to make the most of it......
"life is not about the breaths you take... but about the moments that takes your breath away"
and I see it its up to us to live it to the full anyway we can....its too short to drag baggage around it just weighs us down...ditch the fecker and get a tank bag you can't fit much in lol
well said jonnytb,
life is not long enough to live with if, buts and maybees,
dont sit around hiding and protecting
get on with the next chapter,
thats life, always exciting
I felt like my whole world was gone 6 months ago but i knew i needed to sort myself out ! i'm not saying i'm completely mended but i'm getting there ! I have this site and some very good friends and family to thank for that ....... and i give thanks As has been said on this thread many times ...... it does get easier but bitterness just eats you up inside and nobody is worth THAT There are still times i get a little jolt over something i hear, see or feel but i tell myself it's past and i have the rest of my life to look forward to ...and who knows what's round the corner i can remember the good and bad times now and both with a little smile cus i'm here and i'm alive x
it hurts princess they are in your thoughts night and day after 2 yrs its coming together bit by bit just keep going there is someone out there who loves you x
it breaks your heart when you think you have found the one ,then you find out the guy down the road is shxging your wife and the last to know,,then the whys ,is it my own doing ,did i neglect her ,working to much ,all thoughts , sleepless nights ,they were bad ,work mates who had been thru helped as my work was getting affected,,then the feeling comes ,am i on the scrap heap ,who wants me at that age 47 .the guy has now binned her [the ex ] no money /house ,and in at her mothers now ,and shes been finished from work ,,,revenge is sweet ,now very happy but need a pillion IS IT WRONG FOR A GUY TO OPEN UP
No Greenie ! it's good that so many men feel they can open up now ...probably because parents today (or some ) encourage their boys to show emotion ! What annoyed me was that you said "ladys with headaches no chance " what is that supposed to mean ? i'm not off men and i don't tar all with the same brush ...but when someone comes out with a cliche' like that ! well you do the sums
I swear by spending time with my dog Steiwe, and going for long walks, the dog gives you cuddles and kisses when your sad, and keeps you company at night and company for the walks, and the walks help you get exercise, fresh air, and make you feel good about yourself.
Hope your going to be ok, nothing worse than being let down by someone you love
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