Gettin dumped is sh!t...
My fella just dumped me for second time this year June.. Took him back Sept and he ran off with his 27 year old lodger.... he is 57!
But hey we deserve better....
I've recently become surplus to requirements once again, but I take the philosophical approach.
Sure, it hurts like hell, but you take that pain and mould into a part of your character. Your experiences, good and bad, are what make you, you. You learn from your mistakes, pick yourself up and move on.
It happens to everyone, so you're not alone in this, it's only going to hurt for as long as you let it... Being positive is the only way to get through it I think.
I'm not strung out on anyone at the moment (hoo bloody ray) & life is good but been there:
'Solitary Observation Brought Back from a Sojurn in Hell'
At midnight tears
Run in your ears
A poem by Louise Brogan