So what the hell are you doing on here? This site is for folk who want to meet up in person, whether that be as friends only, or possible dates. I seriously think that the registration form should be given a rethink. Delete membership for those who aren't looking for anyone, or warn them their application to join will be denied. Also...in MHO I think profiles should be vetted BEFORE the account is activated. Rant over.
You all should check your profiles and if not actually looking for a soulmate, change the 'seeking' field to 'friends' or 'nobody'. And maybe the search page should default to only display people who are looking for someone like you. I did get a date on here once. It wouldn't have worked out as I couldn't keep up with her even on a much faster bike. :-(
Serenhondacbr splodg In: Burry port
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It is a social site aswell as a dating site. 'not looking for anybody' does not mean they cannot be on the site. It just means they are not looking to date. If their membership is payed who is anyone to say they should not be on here?
To me the words 'not looking for anybody' means they're not interested in meeting up with anyone. They don't state on their profile that they are looking for friends. That is what I meant by what the hell are they doing on here.
I see what you're saying Sandi..... It's a weird option to have on there.... If you're in a relationship surely you don't mind making new friends...... Maybe they are psychos 🤡🤖💩....... 😵
I cant see your problem Sandi, They are not looking for anybody. Its not that hard to work out that they are just using the site for friendship not a relationship
Suzi, no but cos of work my time off normally coincides with sweet fa, there's nobody TO meet when I am about for any length of time cos nothing is going on. :-/
I'm 50 in a few months so it's about time I sacked work and retired to the sun. I'll be able to look back at all the abuse and smile cos I made it out alive. Though I'll probably die of boredom instead. pmsfl
Lol at 666 😂 Agree with JP. I'm happy to have 'not looking for anybody' on my profile because I'm just not. I don't have to give reasons or justify why I am on here when I'm a long-term member and a paying subscriber. If it bothers some people that much that some random stranger on here is not looking for anyone, just PM them and ask them 'why?' if you are so nosey. Better still, just pass on by their profile and get on with your day